“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” We all sang this tune throughout elementary school, but as we got older we realized how improbable its truth is. Now, as teens we struggle with words every day.
This semester the Bible classes, chapel themes and worship songs are centered around Ephesians 4. Ephesians is often referred to as the book of encouragement, however The Feather staff has seen an increase of hate, gossip and cruelty around campus.
Not only do the teens on campus struggle with verbal abuses, but it begins at a much younger age. Recently, bullying has been a hot topic, specifically in the elementary grades as kids develop their personalities, preferences and cliques. But in order to prevent further disturbances, the change must begin in all areas.
As high school students reign at the top, change must start now. The Feather staff has observed a larger amount of gossip and judgement in the halls. Not only that, some incidents include blunt insults spoken to their peers.
Students are told “not to care what people think,” or “their opinion doesn’t matter” from any mentor around them. But in reality, even adults struggle with ignoring judgement and criticism.
Students criticize teachers, snide comments are blurted out in front of others and the effects are lasting. Though one mistake might seem like a small insult, in reality that’s the one thing that will remain engrained in the victim’s mind.
The Feather has also noted that many of the issues are spurred at school events such as athletic games, performances and others. Instead of attending to support a peer’s efforts, some criticize endlessly. The staff encourages its readers to consider the consequences of their words.
Though a simple joke or whispered comment may not seem harmful, anyone can testify to the pain everyone can suffer from words. Again, think about how much more it could impact someone having a bad day or struggling with depression.
Instead of using words to harm other students, The Feather hopes students of all ages will begin to consider the consequences of their words. Even if the consequences are never known, each word out of one’s mouth has an impact.
The Feather challenges all readers to use their words in an encouraging manner, instead of morphing them to damper someone’s spirit. Words have the power to make friends, inspire nations and make someone’s day. Or they can have the strength to discourage a friend, scar self esteem and leave lasting negative effects. You choose.
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